Is it selfishness when somebody is upset because what he does for other people does not get him anything in return or is not appreciated?
for example, when I say I love a man, cook for him, do laundry for him, make gifts for him, help him in the house etc, and when he tells me that he needs more than just living a life day to day, I get upset because all I do everyday is working hard for us, and I don't feel appreciated, is that being selfish? when I give out of my own willingness, and expect to claim rewards is that a selfish heart?
i thought when you're willing to give, you're giving without expectation, right?
No comments:
Post a Comment