伤害 hurt

张小娴说过：男人对女人的伤害，不一定是他爱上了別人，而是他在她有所期待的時候让她失望，在她脆弱的時候没有扶她一把，在她成功的時候竟然妒忌她。


xiaoxian Zhang wrote: " when a man hurts a woman, it's not necessarily because he falls for another woman, but disappoint her when she expects from him the most; doesn't offer a hand when she is the weakest; and envy her when she succeed. "

scorpio quotes

1) Never expect things to happen..struggle and make them happen.

never expect yourself to be given a good valuecreate a value of your own

2) I f a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity.But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shine like a pearl.so choose the best place where you would shine..

3) Falling down is not defeat...defeat is when your refuse to get up...

4) Ship is always safe at shore... but is is not built for it

5) When your successful your well wishers know who you are when you are unsuccessful you know who your well wishers are

6) It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults; greater to tell him/her

7) "To the world you might be one person,

but to one person you just might be the world

8) "Even the word 'IMPOSSIBLE' says 'I M POSSIBLE' "

9) Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference.

Future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams

We Have the...Power. .. Within us!!!

Keep your thoughts positive, 
because your thoughts become your words.

Keep your words positive, 
because your words become your actions.

Keep your actions positive, 
because your actions become your habits.

Keep your habits positive, 
because your habits become your lifestyle.

Keep your lifestyle positive, 
because your lifestyle becomes your destiny

Discouragement won't stop me from dreaming and exploring

Today I got discouraged by one of the most important people in the world that I care about.
I cried instantly because of what he didn't like about what I did. or maybe for some other reason?
then I went to the bedroom, alone, cried out to the God my Father in heaven, "should I continue?"
"is this really what I should do?" There was a moment when I knew I'd have impulsively erase all my photos
and this blog and all my passions and ideas and plans and, my camera. I have to admit that I take criticism
badly, I hate confrontation, especially with people I care. So I became a people pleaser inevitably, but this
could be a very deadly trait, which you will focus on the wrong things, and lose yourself.
Maybe, I wasn't born to be a photographer, but then, why is it that I have this passion and joy in my heart?
you can dislike my style, my point of view, my compo, or even my entire work, but don't forget to give plenty
respect and encouragement, because maybe one day, this is exactly what you'll need in life.
I asked the Lord to give me comfort, to help me forget and most importantly forgive those who unconsciously
hurt me or discouraged me.
later today as I'm writing the last part of this entry, the Lord put these words in my head: 那加给我力量的.( through who gives me strength) but I don't remember where this verse is in the Bible so I found it on www.biblegateway.com

¹²I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. ¹³I can do everything through him who gives me strength.


here is a quote that I like very much, hope to share with you who have also been or are discouraged, or those who do the opposite:

One of the highest of human duties is the duty of encouragement. …It is easy to laugh at men’s ideals; it is easy to pour cold water on their enthusiasm; it is easy to discourage others.  The world is full of discouragers.  We have a Christian duty to encourage one another.  Many a time a word of praise or thanks or appreciation or cheer has kept a man on his feet.  Blessed is the man who speaks such a word.

William Barclay

Keep on the passion.